Polyamory Series
The planning
Diary problems,
richness of agendas,
shared agendas....
How do we do it? This is a recurring question
in these discussion groups on polyamory.
How do you do it? with the schedule?
How do we organize ourselves?
Shared agenda? Google.
What do we say to the other one?
Should we ask him for permission? No.
The pleasure of discovering,
in the shared agenda,
a first name one night.
We choose dates, recurring days:
You're on Tuesday, I'm on Thursdays.
And then everyone is free.
Agenda, planning, organization,
life, children, friends,
lovers, lovers....
And then... how to choose? Who to choose?
Why choose one or the other rather than the other one?
That day, that weekend, that week,
that night, that night?
Does it hurt the other one?
How does the other one figure it out?
Asymmetry of relationships. Symmetry of relationships.
Complexity. Embrace complexity.
Don't pretend that things are simple.
Does that make them more complicated? Maybe not!
Maybe deep down, assuming their complexity,
makes it necessary to talk about it,
and finally it simplifies, it pacifies,
it makes you question yourself, it makes you work on yourself.
Thanks to Nassera Tamer
A film by Benoît Labourdette
Voice, text, drawing Benoît Labourdette
Topic Nassera Tamer